Danijel reflects on his refugee experience
Danijel Malbasa grew up in a refugee camp after being forced to flee the Balkan Wars conflict of the 1990s. UNHCR helped Danijel and his family resettle in Australia, and now, he’s a Melbourne-based union lawyer and writer.
This World Refugee Day, Danijel reflects on what it means to him to be a refugee and how Every Action Counts, no matter how small.
I was five when my country died.
That’s me – white jumper mouth agape – with my twin on the floor of a refugee camp circa 1999 somewhere on the border between Serbia and Kosovo. In no-mans-land, for neither was yet a country. Caught in the crosshairs of war.
Pictured here with our Mama, trying to make a home in a factory of strangers, waiting for resettlement in an interminable refugee “queue”.
Slowly dissolving and disappearing into soft forgetfulness that the effluxion of time brings as a salve, leading me to doubt that I had ever lived this part of my life.
Sometimes, I wonder whether people care about our stories, what we lived through and what we have to say.
Sometimes, I hear them doubt the authenticity: “your war was twenty years ago, who cares what happened in some Frankenstein assemblage of a country that no longer exists?”
Sometimes I feel like people doubt my refugee story because I do not fit neatly into their stereotyped refugee categories.
This World Refugee Week 2020, my wish is for people to know that anyone can be a refugee.
That you do not even need to be in a war zone to be a refugee.
That you can be a refugee fleeing gang violence in South America.
A refugee fleeing environmental degradation and rising sea levels on our doorstep in Asia Pacific.
An LGBTIQA identifying refugee fleeing oppressive regimes in Eastern Europe or Iran.
Anyone can become a refugee; this is not a choice we make. But you have a choice in how you respond.
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